Getting the kids to school on time. It’s a challenge a lot
of parents face. It was a struggle getting Jennifer to school on time for a
while when she first started kindergarten; we had to go through several
different systems until we settled on one that worked. With Jesse, it’s the
same challenges in the mornings: Trying to keep him focused on getting ready to
go to school, not taking an hour or so to eat his breakfast and actually getting
dressed instead of sitting on the bed, in his birthday suit, looking at a book.
We’re working on it, and I DO make it an effort to get them
there on time (or, in Jesse’s case, at a REASONABLE time where he is not too
early or too late). But sometimes, there are factors out of my control
preventing that from happening.
One of those factors was my alarm clock.
Because hubby and I are both deaf, we have one of those
special alarm clocks for the deaf and hard-of-hearing that vibrate the mattress
when the alarm goes off. It also flashes the lamp on and off but we have it set
to just vibrate.
But it seems like it’s time to replace this same alarm clock
that hubby has had for years, because we’ve had problems with it. It wouldn’t
work!
And on the mornings it didn’t work – that it didn’t go off –
those were times I woke up later than usual and had to RUSH to get Jen to the
bus or school. And sometimes, she was late for both.
Also this week, Jesse has been having what I strongly
suspect are night terrors. He wakes up in the middle of the night crying,
screaming and acting like he’s trying to run away or escape from some monster. He is just terrified.
Last night, it was REALLY bad; he was running around the house crying and
screaming, and when Jennifer or I tried to talk to him or calm him down, it was
like he didn’t recognize us or hear our voices. It was like he was in a waking
dream, moreso when he kept trying to climb the walls and scratch at the door.
(Jennifer often woke up from this since Jesse was also screaming and sometimes my
husband would be home when it happened). It has been horrible and last night it
was scary. Sometimes he’d wake up more than once. Which meant we hardly got any
sleep! (One thing that put a stop to them on certain evenings is if I let him
sleep in my bed with me and I had to leave the light on.) So that, too, has
been a problem. We’d all be zombies the next morning because we hardly got
enough sleep!
And that slowed down the whole process of getting ready for
school and out the door.
But I’m hoping things will start to look up. Got my alarm
clock to work this morning(yay!) and I hope it will continue to work. As to
Jesse, we are going to work on the nighttime thing. Jennifer had night terrors, too, when she
was a toddler but it was never that bad and it went away after a while. This
has been going on for some time with Jesse, but more often this week than
normal. So we’re going to try to work on resolving this. I definitely need to
make his bedroom safer so he doesn’t get hurt the next time it happens.
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